So ladies…
So I am curious. See i’ve spoken to all kinds of different girls, about this, and I am curious what your thoughts are on it. Sure enough, it’s a subject, I am sure you all have an opinion on, so please, tell me what you think…
So, with guys, do you know guys to be in touch with their emotions – in your opinion? By that, I mean… Do you know of guys, or have been with guys who express how they really feel – instead of acting up to how they feel they SHOULD be. It seems to me, on the basis of many years oogling convo’s and alike, that these types of guys are few and far between, so really… What do you think?
Whilst we’re talking about guys – what do you girls, look for in a guy? By that, what do you look for in a guy, you’d actually want to be with for more than a weekend – so don’t be so shallow!!! 
Heh, funny, it’s my blog, yet you guys are providing all the content, good job people! 
November 16th, 2005 at 1:45 am
yes, it is very very rare. But I happen to know many guys like that. To be exact… 4.
thats a lot. I guess I’m lucky.. And perhaps that is why you’ll never hear me say “all men are bastards”..
as for the second q.. lol I’ve actually made a list a couple of years ago. A list of all the qualities my dream boy gotta have
lol
here it is:
He doesn’t play games with me
He makes me feel beautiful
He’s mature enough to tell me smart things and NOT the other way around
He shows His love to me every day
He says what he really feels
He gives me space, the right to have some privacy, my life
He’s a football fan
He knows how to cook
He’s ambissious
We don’t need words to understand each other
He loves traveling
He makes me laugh
I can be myself with Him
He loves animals
He likes to take care of me
He loves his family
well these are the most important things
November 16th, 2005 at 4:39 am
Someone who loves you for you, And not because they want to get up your skirt or because they think your “well fit”. R-E-S-P-E-C-T, Trust, and Love, Friendship the foundation of any good relationship.
November 16th, 2005 at 11:48 am
oh and I forgot to say that he’s gotta be good-looking, my type of good-looking
yes, it is important to me coz otherwise I might not even notice him 
trust IS very very important
November 16th, 2005 at 6:54 pm
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November 17th, 2005 at 8:25 am
AH, steve the skype dodger, HOW IT DO!
I only know one guy who is fairly open about his emotions and he lives on the other side of the Atlantic, so despite the fact that I truly appreciate it, to actually have that in someone who is HERE would be very remarkable, admirable, and helpful! To often I find myself making assumptions or just jumping through hoops to figure out what a guy thinks about me if he isn’t one to make it blatantly obvious!
As for what I look in a guy, is .. just that we can enjoy eachothers company. I think that needs to be the most basic part of a relationship or it will go nowhere. Someone to make you laugh, listen to you when you’re sad, and realize who you are and appreciate you not for how you look, but that you can make them laugh and that there is something deeper, more substantial than the physical. Naaaahhh whaaa I mean jellybean!
I also think it’s really important for him to have some sort of direction in his life. For me, I am for sure going to a 4 year uni, possibly going to graduate school, working, trying to make my life succesful! I’d hope he’d have the same ambition or at least a very directed future. I’m not really one for unmotivated people, making excuses for themselves (but I’ll cut a little slack since I can get like that at times too, it happens!
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He needs to take care of himself! I cannot stress that enough! Not just physically but mentally as well… Just basic pride in his appearance, presentation of himself, and aware of various social situations and how to act/dress. But besides the physical, like I said .. mental. That’s so key! I really don’t think someone can properly care for another if they do not fully love themselves and are OK with being by themselves and not so depserate and dependent for someone to fill a void or issue that needs to be solved on their own. I’m not really into being someones life saver.
To be nitpicky: accent, tall, dark hair, own a ring, cool hair, SWEEET shoes are all a plus!
November 18th, 2005 at 12:17 am
All a girl really wants, be she a writer, a teacher, or a nun, is some serious deep dickin’
Also, what is with you girls
“Someone who makes me feel beautiful”
Translation – Someone who gives my EGO POWER. Thats an EGO TRIP. Thats hilarious
“Someone who doesnt play games with me”
Translation – Someone who does not SEE THROUGH MY STUPID POWER GAMES, and does not TAKE MY POWER AWAY FROM MY EGO.
Girls, girls girls! Whats the problem with sleeping with a lot of them. If you love someone unconditionally, what does it matter if he sleeps with other girls? Meh.
Im not picking on you starlight, just your 2 points I liked to summarize on. Now your counter argument will be some stupid crap I have read and heard a million times before, but really, that is just your ego talking.
Were all led to believe that we are
A) Specail – We are the one
or
B) We are not specail. We are worthless.
Which are both WRONG and are both ABOUT THE EGO!
Enjoy men for who they are. If they happen to be pricks who aren’t worth nothing (i.e almost 100%) then DONT WASTE TIME.
Same for you too Steve with the girls.
November 18th, 2005 at 4:19 pm
I agree with Fantana 100 per cent. But Hey! We know we are not worthless, I mean do men give birth to babies and hopefully keep this world spinning? No all they do is go “uugh” and that’s it. How super. I’ll come back as a man, then. Steve, you’re beginning to sound like an old man! Get real, babes and find yourself someone who shares your own interests (better go and find an all-girls footie team member, then!).
November 20th, 2005 at 2:22 pm
haha ok then. Fanatan, I’ll spare you of my crap counter argument coz unfortunately nothing I say will change your mind. And to tell the truth I dont wanna be bothered to change your mind at all. You’re intitled to your own oppinion about women and me in particular. I live my life the way I feel is right and I’m looking for a right person to share my life with. My critiria are right for me only and I don’t expect you to relate to them..
November 20th, 2005 at 2:23 pm